An effective recipe for a happy married life

Happy Married Life | Adab Kutab

Somewhere there lived an old but sensible woman whose husband loved her very much. The love between the two was so intense that her husband used to write love poetry for her. The older I got, the more mutual love and happiness grew. When this woman was asked the secret of her life out of eternal love and happiness, was she a very good cook? Or is she very beautiful? Or has she been a woman with many children? Or is there another secret to this love?

So the woman replied that the means of living a happy life are in the hands of the woman herself after the caste of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta’ala. (happy married life)

If a woman wants, she can make her house the shadow of heaven, and if she wants, she can make her house out of the burning fire of hell. Don’t think that wealth is a cause of happiness. History is full of stories of rich women whose husbands abandoned them, including their possessions, and it is not a virtue to be a woman who gives birth to many children. (happy married life)

Many women have given birth to dozens of children But her husband did not thank her, and she could not find any special affection or love for her husband Even when it is time for divorce, it is not good to cook good food. Even after staying in the kitchen all day and cooking delicious food, women seem to be complaining about their husband’s wrongdoing and they are not able to gain any respect in the eyes of their husband.

Then tell me, what is the secret of a life full of happiness and joy? And how did you deal with the problems that arose between you and your husband? (happy married life)

She replied: When my husband was angry and of course my husband was a very angry man, I used to observe complete silence in those moments (with the utmost respect).

So why didn’t you leave the room in such a situation?

She said: Beware! Don’t do such a thing, it will make you think that you want to escape from him and do not want to know his point of view. Silence is necessary, as well as listening to what the husband says, but also agreeing with what he says.

When my husband finished his speech, I would leave the room, because after all this shouting and drunken talk, I knew he needed to get out of the room and go to my daily house I was busy with chores, working as a child, spending time cooking and washing clothes, and trying to keep my mind off the war my husband had with me.

So what did you do in that environment? Taking irrelevant authority for many days and giving up talking to her husband for ten days a week, etc.? (happy married life)

she said: no! By no means do I want to convey that I recommend for the mother to be inactive, but this is not the case. In the beginning he will want to talk to you and try to talk to you but as the days go by he will get used to it. If you stop talking for a week, it will give you the ability to not speak for two weeks, and maybe learn to live without you. (happy married life)

Get your husband in the habit of making you feel suffocated without you. It is as if you were like oxygen to him, and you are the water he drank to keep him alive. If the wind were to blow, it would be a cool, gentle breeze, not a whirlwind and a whirlwind.

What did you do after that? (happy married life)

The woman said: After two hours or so, I would make a glass of juice or a cup of hot tea and go to him, and say to him very politely, “Take it, have some tea!” I was convinced that he was craving this tea or juice at that moment. This act of mine and the conversation with my husband was as if there was no anger or fight between us, while now my husband kept asking me if I was angry with him. While every time I would reply to him that no, I am not angry at all, after that he would always apologize for his correct attitude and would talk to me for hours.

So could you believe his love for these things? (happy married life)

Yes! Absolutely, I was absolutely convinced of those things, I am not ignorant! Would you say that I should believe what my husband used to say to me in anger and not believe what he used to say to me in peace?

So where did your “honor” and “self-respect” go? (happy married life)

What is “honor” and what is “self-esteem”? Is “honor” the name of the person who is angry with you for believing in his bitterness and making him your “self-esteem”? But do not pay any attention to what he is saying to you in a loving and calm atmosphere. I immediately forgot the abusive and bitter words given in a state of anger and listened to their love and useful words. Yes! The secret of a happy and loving life is in a woman’s mind, but it is hidden in her tongue.

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Last Words (happy married life)

All friends read Durood Sharif once By reciting Durood Sharif once The Almighty has mercy ten times.

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