My Beloved Wife
Signs of a Good Wife | Adab Kutab
Oh, these cruel wives
Although this article is a few years old, I am re-sharing it in a special context.
Because some friends wrote about the position of wives,
They get upset, get angry, get worse and then fall apart at your feet and lose everything at your feet. Rupees add money, sometimes out of your pocket and sometimes out of your inherited money, there are such forgotten cows that do good to their husbands but deeds are always a bargain. (signs of a good wife)
They leave a couple of rupees on your children. Ever had enough to make your own two or four pairs but you know what they often do?
Yes ! They go to the market with great interest and bring any item of home, any decoration or any use. Many Sayanis consider a sentence to be just a compliment to a manipulator. (signs of a good wife)
Do your part and in return agree to just one look, a loving smile and recognition. It is a matter of principle that it is the responsibility of a man to build and run a house and it is the responsibility of a woman to take care of it, decorate it and beautify it. Now this woman works as a man and asks for two words of praise and you know? She agrees.
The next day we had a Facebook friend’s operation. Both of the friend’s kidneys had failed. Change decided. I was heartbroken to see his post. What a beautiful, smiling face. I was very worried. God gave life back. A friend asked him what it was like to donate a kidney.
Someone asked the next question:
Brother, who gave you a kidney?
His answer was:
My Beloved wife. (signs of a good wife)
My eyes filled with tears at what a wonderful blessing Allah has given us. Does it happen?
She loves us, then she gets upset and then she loses everything on us. If the time comes, she also kills herself. Sometimes we become so careless that we even refuse to accept compliments, but it is such that we treat this carelessness with more love so that the forgetfulness of this evening may return soon. (signs of a good wife)
The next day I saw a video in which the husband lost his wife due to her unwillingness to go with him. He tied her to the motorcycle and took her with him. On the way, the man was embarrassed by the act, so he opened it. Now the woman was reassuring people that there was no such thing as a suspicious case. She was his wife. There was just a fight and at the same time I was wiping the sweat from my husband’s mouth with perfect love. Seeing the arrows of the people, all the fighting was forgotten. Just worry that no one will say anything to her husband.
Live in the world, live in the world. (signs of a good wife)
There are membranes that preserve the best part of the food for us and we sometimes forget to ask if he ate the food or not. Even if we come to tell our friends all day long, we think that Sartaj is tired of working all day. The feet are also patient so as not to offend the delicate watermelons of the mood. We have become so helpless that we have become delicate glasses ourselves and it is very easy to tell him what you do all day. (signs of a good wife)
One of my acquaintances remembered that whenever an eight or ten year old child would come with him, one day he would say:
“Not his mother, I cook the food myself. We live together. I have a room and the job is in Lahore. I go to work. I leave him at the memorization madrassa. Then I can do some work. I think.” It remains to be seen how we get to work without worrying.
She is so simple that she waives her dowry on the next day of marriage and if someone makes her look poorer or fills her arms with love, she gives him the same amount and says:
You will take the berth, what I have to do is you have so much money. (signs of a good wife)
Dude, look what a blessing God is. She suffers all the time that she leaves her parents and comes to you. Then your parents serve their siblings. The moment you can’t bear the pain. By supporting this, they give birth to your children and give you the greatest reward by training them to the best of their ability and then fighting them for you even when you are old:
What do you think of the father?
And let me tell you, the greatest blessing is to them, from which I am always delighted to think of your Hereafter. How kind and compassionate they are. My wife becomes so bitter when I slacken in prayers. Sometimes she wants to study at home due to cheapness, so she gets angry as if I have stolen her savings. Then you have to get up and go to the mosque. (signs of a good wife)
There are so many cruel wives who will never leave you. They also worry about the Hereafter.
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